But those moments now pale in comparison to the excitement of having celebrated two amazing weddings within this short time frame. In October 2019, it was Dan and Jill. Luisa and I had a natural high leading up to the wedding and then for about a month afterwards. Now it was Desiree' and Spencer's turn to tie the knot and give us hope for a better future.
The day was as beautiful as the bride. The location picturesque. The venue, prepared with an attention to detail that would not only excite us about what we would all experience but sweetly reminding us of those who would not be joining us physically but without a doubt, in spirit.
From the memory room, with Abuelo's handcrafted furniture to the two dominoes tables on the porch, just begging to hear Miguel yell "La Gorda" and proclaim "My House, My Rules". Their presence was felt everywhere. Several of us wore his suits, ties, shirts, and even the bridesmaid's flowers were wrapped with Miguel's ties.
As the guests began to stroll in and sip from the champagne glass, we were all admiring the location and the shear beauty of the place. All of us, very consciously aware this day would be full of joy while trying to keep our emotions in check so we can focus on the bride and her husband to be.
As the ceremony began, our anticipation and excitement grew upon seeing Desiree' walk down the paved path in Denise's arms. The friends and family, giving them both support and admiring the strength of those beautiful ladies, as the waves began to crash loudly against the rocks nearby. Then as Reverend Jorge started to speak his words, the ocean calmed to the point you could hear a pin drop.
The wedding vows romantic and full of emotions like the crowd sitting in the chairs, tears flowing with all of the love for this family.
The celebration capped the night with great speeches, incredible food, and non-stop dancing throughout the entire time.
There was one moment, where it all came full circle. A song, a tribute to Miguel, where everybody was asked to dance with the newlyweds and the family. Everybody joined the dance floor which at first did not appear to be big enough, but obviously was.
The tribute song was "Rie y Llora" (Laugh and Cry) by Celia Cruz. On my drive back from FL, I listened to the song several times, wanting to dissect the words and appreciate its significance.
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Lo que es bueno hoy
Quizás no lo sea mañana
He ahí el valor del momento
He ahí el presente perfecto
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No es que recuerde, sino que no olvido
Eso es el perdón, recordar sin dolor
Agárrate fuerte y ya no te sueltes
Ríe, llora
Que a cada cual le llega su hora (le llega, le llega)
Ríe, llora
Vive tu vida y gózala toda (vive tu vida y gózala toda)
Here is the song with lyrics
Essentially, tomorrow is not guaranteed. Therefore live your life in the moment. The perfect moment at this current time. It's not that you have to remember the pains of the past, but that you cannot forget the good moments of today. Laugh, Cry, as our time will come for all of us. So live your life and enjoy everything.
This was exactly what Miguel wanted us to do and how he lived his life. Enjoying the moment, thanking God for all of our blessings, namely our family.
As the newlyweds make their way to their honeymoon, and to begin their future together, the pictures and comments from all of the people that witnessed this magical event are flowing on everybody's respective Facebook pages. The smiles and comments say it all.
Life is good. Especially with a family and friends like we have.
Congratulations Desi and Spencer. May God Bless your marriage and may you always live your life, in the moment.
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